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About
Wise Speech
Short Description:
A practice from Buddhist ethics that encourages speaking truthfully, kindly, and with awareness of impact and intention.
About
Wise Speech—sometimes called Right Speech—is one of the steps on the Buddhist Noble Eightfold Path. It offers simple but powerful guidance for communication: speak truthfully, speak kindly, speak helpfully, and speak at the right time.
In educational spaces, Wise Speech invites us to slow down and consider our words—how they land, what they build, and whether they come from clarity or reactivity. It’s about pausing before we correct, encourage, or instruct—and choosing speech that builds connection instead of harm.
Wise Speech aligns beautifully with compassionate communication, mindful teaching, and trauma-informed care. It reminds adults that how we speak is the teaching.
For children, it can be modeled through tone, honesty, consent in conversation, and checking in after conflict. For adults, it’s a daily practice in awareness, humility, and care.
How It Shows Up in Practice
You’ll hear Wise Speech in:
- Teachers taking a breath before responding to a child’s outburst.
- Classrooms that explore words like “kind,” “true,” and “necessary.”
- Repair conversations after harm or misunderstanding.
- Reflective language that builds bridges instead of walls.
References
- Gunaratana, B.H. (2001). Eight Mindful Steps to Happiness
- Nhat Hanh, T. (2013). The Art of Communicating
- Insight Meditation Society. Ethics in Speech