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Welcome

I'm glad you're here.

I've spent over thirty-five years in the woods with children — real woods, with mud and sticks and long stretches of quiet that most adults have forgotten how to sit inside. What I've learned in those years didn't come from a curriculum. It came from watching. From listening. From getting out of the way often enough to notice what children actually do when we let them.

I once watched a child make a small clay friend for a fading mushroom — because "it looked lonely." That moment taught me more about education than any textbook I've read. Not because it was cute, but because it was real. A child saw something suffering, felt something in response, and acted — with tenderness, with creativity, with complete seriousness. No one told her to do this. She simply met the world as it was and responded from her own deep sense of what the moment required.

That is what education looks like when you trust it to emerge rather than trying to deliver it.

I offer these pages first as a gift — to my own children and to all the dear young friends, most now grown, who have walked these trails with me. And I offer them to you, wherever you are in your own work with children.

If you're a parent wondering how to slow down, how to stop managing every moment, how to trust your child's natural capacity to meet the world — you might start with the blog. The essays there are personal, practical, and grounded in real moments from the trail.

If you're an educator looking for a different way to think about your role in the classroom or the forest — one rooted in presence, observation, and trust rather than outcomes and benchmarks — explore the resources and reflections on contemplative pedagogy.

If you're a practitioner drawn to the intersection of the Buddhadhamma and parenting — or simply curious about what thirty-five years of sitting with children and sitting with the Dhamma have taught me about both — the About page is a good place to begin.

If you're not sure — that's fine too. Look around. Follow what draws your attention. That's how children learn, and it works just as well for the rest of us.

What you'll find here is an education rooted in experience, not abstraction. It values presence over performance. Wonder over outcomes. It respects the rhythms of human development and takes seriously the idea that children are not preparing for life — they are already living it.

Come in. Stay as long as you like.

—Rebecca

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The Boy, a Poem on The Language of OtheringThe Boy, a Poem on The Language of Othering
The Boy, a Poem on The Language of Othering

Exploring how children learn to exclude and label others as "one of those," and how educational systems suppress natural curiosity, movement, and diverse ways of learning.

ESSAY
The Gift of Boredom: Why Your Child Needs More Unstimulated TimeThe Gift of Boredom: Why Your Child Needs More Unstimulated Time
The Gift of Boredom: Why Your Child Needs More Unstimulated Time

Discover why "I'm bored!" is actually good news. This science-backed guide reveals how unstimulated time boosts preschoolers' creativity, brain development, and emotional resilience.

ESSAY
Clay, Bird, and Child in DialogueClay, Bird, and Child in Dialogue
Clay, Bird, and Child in Dialogue

Children worked with clay as a bird gathered pine needles outside. Nests, worms, houses, and burrows emerged—gestures of shelter, repetition, and persistence carried in material.

JOURNAL
Threads of Interest: Bird Alarm Calls ➜ Field Pressure ➜Nature of Presence ➜ Emptiness of ReachingThreads of Interest:  Bird Alarm Calls ➜ Field Pressure ➜Nature of Presence ➜ Emptiness of Reaching
Threads of Interest: Bird Alarm Calls ➜ Field Pressure ➜Nature of Presence ➜ Emptiness of Reaching

A simple forest school lesson on bird alarms became a doorway into presence, perception, and pressure—spanning science, parenting, deep nature connection, and contemplative awareness.

RABBIT HOLES
The Mind Has Shape: The Forest as MirrorThe Mind Has Shape: The Forest as Mirror
The Mind Has Shape: The Forest as Mirror

When attention softens, the forest responds. Birds, breath, and baseline become a mirror—not of self, but of tone, pressure, and the wake of thought.

ESSAY
Tumbling Over the Edge: Bev Bos and the Radical Wonder of ChildhoodTumbling Over the Edge: Bev Bos and the Radical Wonder of Childhood
Tumbling Over the Edge: Bev Bos and the Radical Wonder of Childhood

A tribute to Bev Bos and the living legacy of Roseville Preschool—celebrating trust, play, presence, and the radical act of letting children tumble freely into becoming.

ESSAY
STUDY GUIDE Coyote’s Path: Mentoring as Nature ConnectionSTUDY GUIDE Coyote’s Path: Mentoring as Nature Connection
STUDY GUIDE Coyote’s Path: Mentoring as Nature Connection

A nature-based approach using curiosity, storytelling, and invisible guidance to foster deep connection with the land, self, and others, supporting cultural repair and renewal.

STUDY GUIDE-Education
Threads of Interest: Following Presence: Notes and WonderingsThreads of Interest: Following Presence: Notes and Wonderings
Threads of Interest: Following Presence: Notes and Wonderings

Exploring presence as relational, embodied, ethical, and cross-cultural—moving from technique to undoing, attunement, and mutual vulnerability with children and nature.

RABBIT HOLES
Not Practicing Presence: What Krishnamurti Might Say to EducatorsNot Practicing Presence: What Krishnamurti Might Say to Educators
Not Practicing Presence: What Krishnamurti Might Say to Educators

Presence shaped by outcome isn’t presence. Krishnamurti invites attention without identity, method, or purpose—challenging us to meet the child without bringing ourselves.

ESSAY
Friends for the MushroomsFriends for the Mushrooms
Friends for the Mushrooms

In the hush of the forest classroom, Emily discovered withered mushrooms and responded not with removal, but with reverence—sculpting clay companions to ease their solitude.

JOURNAL
Writing Again after Neurological InjuryWriting Again after Neurological Injury
Writing Again after Neurological Injury

Though outwardly invisible to most people, for me these events can impact language, memory, and cognitive clarity.

REFLECTION
A Dialogue in Clay: Fiona’s first Encounter A Dialogue in Clay: Fiona’s first Encounter
A Dialogue in Clay: Fiona’s first Encounter

Fiona meets clay for the first time. Through gesture and touch, she enters a sensory dialogue, revealing the depth of nonverbal learning and relational presence.

JOURNAL
The Marble RunThe Marble Run
The Marble Run
JOURNAL
It Started with a WheelIt Started with a Wheel
It Started with a Wheel

A glance becomes a blueprint as children design and build a car from stumps—merging imagination, collaboration, authorship, and spatial storytelling in an evolving outdoor classroom.

JOURNAL
A Review of The Courage to Teach by Parker J. PalmerA Review of
A Review of The Courage to Teach by Parker J. Palmer

An invitation for teachers to reclaim their inner life, Parker Palmer offers a pedagogy of presence grounded in authenticity, integrity, and the soul of the educator.

BOOK REFLECTION
REVIEW Ethics and Politics in Early Childhood Education, Gunilla Dahlberg & Peter Moss currently readingREVIEW
REVIEW Ethics and Politics in Early Childhood Education, Gunilla Dahlberg & Peter Moss currently reading
BOOK REVIEW
Whale Rock: The Pedagogy of the Inside Joke by AndrewWhale Rock: The Pedagogy of the Inside Joke by Andrew
Whale Rock: The Pedagogy of the Inside Joke by Andrew

Description: A playful ritual, repeated over years, transforms a forest boulder into a shared landmark of joy, trust, and community memory.

JOURNAL
REVIEW Total Freedom: The Essential KrishnamurtiREVIEW
REVIEW Total Freedom: The Essential Krishnamurti

An invitation to dissolve inherited beliefs, teachings on awareness, authority, and the end of psychological suffering.

BOOK REFLECTION
REVIEW Visible Learners: Promoting Reggio-Inspired Approaches in All SchoolsREVIEW Visible Learners: Promoting Reggio-Inspired Approaches in All Schools
REVIEW Visible Learners: Promoting Reggio-Inspired Approaches in All Schools

What becomes possible when schools center thinking as a shared, visible process—interpreted, remembered, and shaped in relationship?

BOOK REVIEW
REVIEW Making Learning Visible by Project Zero & Reggio ChildrenREVIEW Making Learning Visible by Project Zero & Reggio Children
REVIEW Making Learning Visible by Project Zero & Reggio Children

Documentation as a tool for making group learning visible, co-constructed, and meaningful.

BOOK REVIEW
BOOK Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit DisorderBOOK Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder
BOOK Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder
BOOK REFLECTION
BOOK In Dialogue with Reggio Emilia, Carlina RinaldiBOOK In Dialogue with Reggio Emilia, Carlina Rinaldi
BOOK In Dialogue with Reggio Emilia, Carlina Rinaldi

A journey into the philosophical heart of the Reggio Emilia Approach, exploring listening, research, and democratic education through Carlina Rinaldi’s nuanced and visionary pedagogical view.

BOOK REFLECTION
What Is the Reggio Emilia Approach? A Living Philosophy of ChildhoodWhat Is the Reggio Emilia Approach? A Living Philosophy of Childhood
What Is the Reggio Emilia Approach? A Living Philosophy of Childhood

A relational, child-centered philosophy of early education from Italy, the Reggio Emilia Approach honors curiosity, creativity, and community through project work, documentation, and a deeply respectful image of the child.

ESSAY
“The Right Number of Bloody Owies”“The Right Number of Bloody Owies”
“The Right Number of Bloody Owies”

Reflects on risk, agency, and learning through the lens of Teacher Tom’s wisdom, honoring children’s capacity to navigate the physical world with courage and competence.

JOURNAL
What Carries a Child: Building Resilience Through NatureWhat Carries a Child: Building Resilience Through Nature
What Carries a Child: Building Resilience Through Nature

What does it take to raise resilient children? This post explores the role of nature, discomfort, and early freedom in shaping inner strength—from scraped knees to carrying their own water.

JOURNAL
The Hammer Wasn’t Wrong-Who gets to decide what belongs in school?The Hammer Wasn’t Wrong-Who gets to decide what belongs in school?
The Hammer Wasn’t Wrong-Who gets to decide what belongs in school?

Tells the story of a child who valued real tools at school—only to be told he was wrong. A critique of standardized assumptions about learning and materials.

JOURNAL
Trusting Children with Risk Is Not RecklessnessTrusting Children with Risk Is Not Recklessness
Trusting Children with Risk Is Not Recklessness

An invitation to rethink risk in childhood—how trusting children with real challenges builds strength, discernment, and responsibility, rather than fear or dependence.

JOURNAL
Listening with a Pen: Mapping Shapes of AlarmListening with a Pen: Mapping Shapes of Alarm
Listening with a Pen: Mapping Shapes of Alarm

A child kneels in stillness, pencil in hand, mapping bird language and wind. This is relational learning—seeing the invisible through Sit Spot, presence, and reverence for place.

JOURNAL
A Book, a Creek, and a Circle of JoyA Book, a Creek, and a Circle of Joy
A Book, a Creek, and a Circle of Joy

The hike had been long. The children were hot, a little tired, and more than a little restless. No one asked for a story—but something in the air asked for a shift. So I waded into the creek, sat down on a smooth rock, and opened the book.

JOURNAL
She Reads with Her Whole HeartShe Reads with Her Whole Heart
She Reads with Her Whole Heart

A tender portrait of emergent empathy and relational literacy, where a child's reading becomes an act of presence, not performance—honoring care beyond comprehension.

JOURNAL
Reading to the SaplingReading to the Sapling
Reading to the Sapling

A quiet moment of a child reading to a sapling becomes a meditation on empathy, presence, and the unseen curriculum of relational, child-led learning in nature.

JOURNAL
The Creek Teaches EverythingThe Creek Teaches Everything
The Creek Teaches Everything

Children navigate a creek with curiosity and courage, revealing how unstructured nature play cultivates sensory awareness, problem-solving, and embodied, integrated learning beyond the classroom.

JOURNAL
Running Toward ThemselvesRunning Toward Themselves
Running Toward Themselves

Children run for no reason but joy. In their motion, they reclaim learning as instinctive, embodied, and whole—beyond adult framing or institutional control.

JOURNAL
Reclaiming the Continuum: An Analysis of Jean Liedloff’s Vision for Human DevelopmentReclaiming the Continuum: An Analysis of Jean Liedloff’s Vision for Human Development
Reclaiming the Continuum: An Analysis of Jean Liedloff’s Vision for Human Development

Explores the principles of the Continuum Concept, contrasting traditional Western parenting with evolutionary expectations of closeness, responsiveness, and community-integrated childhood.

ESSAY
STUDY GUIDE Living by Design, Not Default: Drafting Your Family Values StatementSTUDY GUIDE Living by Design, Not Default: Drafting Your Family Values Statement
STUDY GUIDE Living by Design, Not Default: Drafting Your Family Values Statement

Guides families through creating a values statement that reflects intentional choices, not cultural defaults. Encourages clarity, coherence, and alignment between beliefs, parenting, and daily life.

STUDY GUIDE-Education
GUIDE Empathic Listening: Deep Connection for Parents and EducatorsGUIDE Empathic Listening:  Deep Connection for Parents and Educators
GUIDE Empathic Listening: Deep Connection for Parents and Educators

Presents the principles of empathic listening as relational practice. Offers tools for presence, reflection, and attunement—fostering trust and emotional safety in both home and classroom.

STUDY GUIDE-Education
Pause. Wonder. Repair. Return: A New Rhythm for Compassionate Parenting and TeachingPause. Wonder. Repair. Return: A New Rhythm for Compassionate Parenting and Teaching
Pause. Wonder. Repair. Return: A New Rhythm for Compassionate Parenting and Teaching

Introduces a rhythm for compassionate parenting and teaching that supports emotional presence, repair after rupture, and trust in relational growth—rooted in nonviolence and mindfulness.

STUDY GUIDE-Education
Loose Parts: The Open Invitation of PlayLoose Parts: The Open Invitation of Play
Loose Parts: The Open Invitation of Play

Explores how loose parts—natural or found materials—invite open-ended play, creativity, and exploration. Celebrates children's innate capacity to invent, construct, and express meaning through self-directed interaction.

ESSAY
The History of Forest SchoolsThe History of Forest Schools
The History of Forest Schools

Discover how a Danish mother’s forest walks sparked a global educational movement, reimagining childhood learning through nature, storytelling, risk, and child-led exploration across cultures and climates.

ESSAY
Reflection on Coyote's Guide to Connecting with Nature, Jon YoungReflection on Coyote's Guide to Connecting with Nature,  Jon Young
Reflection on Coyote's Guide to Connecting with Nature, Jon Young

A field-tested mentor’s manual for deepening children's relationship with nature, offering stories, routines, and practices to awaken curiosity, quietude, and ecological belonging.

BOOK REVIEW
BOOK Free to Learn, by Peter GrayBOOK Free to Learn, by Peter Gray
BOOK Free to Learn, by Peter Gray

A bold challenge to conventional schooling, Free to Learn argues that children thrive best when trusted to play, explore, and educate themselves through freedom and community.

BOOK REVIEW
What Exactly Is Play?What Exactly Is Play?
What Exactly Is Play?

Reflection on Peter Gray’s definition of play, exploring how real play fosters autonomy, creativity, and deep learning through self-direction, imagination, and internal logic.

ESSAY
Three Approaches from Europe:Waldorf, Montessori, and Reggio Emilia (Edwards)Three Approaches from Europe:Waldorf, Montessori, and Reggio Emilia (Edwards)
Three Approaches from Europe:Waldorf, Montessori, and Reggio Emilia (Edwards)

A comparative overview of three influential early childhood models. Highlights their philosophies, practices, and cultural origins, inviting reflection on what each offers to educators and families today.

ESSAY

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