Friends for the Mushrooms

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In the hush of the forest classroom, Emily discovered withered mushrooms and responded not with removal, but with reverence—sculpting clay companions to ease their solitude.

-July 2010

Emily discovers the mushrooms

Emily discovered a cluster of withering mushrooms on the edge of a tree stump. She paused, crouched beside them, and studied their rubbery texture.

“They’re lonely,”

she said softly. Her gaze lingered. Then, without instruction or announcement, she walked to the outdoor clay table, pinched off a small ball, and returned.

One by one, she shaped figures—some upright, some curled—and placed them next to the mushrooms. “Now they have friends,” she whispered.

Child Voice

“They’re lonely.”

“They need some friends.”

“I’m making them someone.”

What Learning Might Be Happening?

This moment reveals an emergent ethic of care. Emily wasn’t prompted by adult direction, nor motivated by outcome. She sensed the vulnerability of something small and fading and moved into relationship. Her clay work was not representational in the traditional sense, but relational—each form a gesture of connection. She used clay not as a medium for mastery, but as a bridge.

Educator’s Reflections

What does it mean to witness a child enact empathy not toward another child or adult—but toward fungi? How often do we offer children space to respond to the world with tenderness rather than utility? In Reggio-inspired practice, we consider the hundred languages of children not only as modes of expression, but as invitations to relationship. Here, clay became a language of companionship.

Connections to Reggio Emilia Principles

Children as Protagonists: Emily initiated this encounter and determined its meaning.
The Environment as Third Teacher: The tree stump and mushrooms created a natural provocation.
Expressive Languages: Clay emerged as a mode of care rather than craft.
Pedagogy of Listening: Her whisper was quiet, but carried the full weight of her intention.

Possible Continuations

Offer a journal or story dictation space for Emily to tell the tale of the mushrooms and their new friends.
Invite others to notice overlooked or “lonely” elements in the forest and respond in kind.
Explore sculpture as a relational act—who or what might need a companion today?

Keywords: empathy, clay play, outdoor classroom, relationships, nature-based learning, Reggio Emilia