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Family Constellation
Short Description:
A therapeutic approach that explores how unseen family dynamics and generational patterns influence behavior, emotions, and relationships.
About
Family Constellation work, developed by Bert Hellinger, is based on the idea that family systems carry hidden loyalties, traumas, and entanglements that may unconsciously shape a child’s development. It emphasizes that children often carry the emotional burdens of previous generations—even when they’re not aware of them.
While not originally part of educational theory, this lens resonates with holistic and relational approaches to childhood. It helps teachers and parents reflect on how emotional patterns—belonging, guilt, exclusion—can show up in classroom dynamics or child behavior.
By honoring family systems and acknowledging unseen influences, we create more space for compassion, presence, and healing in how we support children.
How It Shows Up in Practice
You might see this approach in:
- Teachers reflecting on patterns of conflict or withdrawal.
- Educators holding space for children’s complex emotional worlds.
- Discussions of inherited patterns in parent education.
- Adults exploring their own emotional lineage to better support others.
References
- Hellinger, B. (1998). Acknowledging What Is
- Ulsamer, B. (2005). The Art and Practice of Family Constellations
- Cohen, E. (2016). Mapping the Family Soul